Chapter 6 - The Choice My Father Could No Longer Avoid
Dad sat on the workbench in the garage for almost a full minute without speaking.
I stood in front of him holding the photograph.
"Who sent it?"
"I don't know."
"Emma—"
"No."
I already recognized the beginning of another delay.
"Tell me."
He looked toward the open garage door.
Our street looked perfectly ordinary.
A neighbor watered flowers.
A kid rode past on a bicycle.
Somewhere, a lawn mower buzzed.
Inside our garage, another piece of my family was about to change.
Dad rubbed his thumb across the edge of the photograph.
"Your mom and Shirley met in college."
"I know."
"They were extremely close."
"I know that too."
"After I started dating your mother, Shirley..."
He stopped.
I felt my stomach tighten.
"What?"
"She told Caroline she thought I was a bad choice."
I almost laughed.
"Seriously?"
Dad nodded.
"She said I was too ambitious, too focused on work."
"Was she wrong?"
He gave me a sad smile.
"Not entirely."
I waited.
"A few months before our wedding, Shirley told me she had feelings for me."
There it was.
Another secret.
"Did Mom know?"
"Yes."
"How?"
"I told her."
That surprised me.
"What happened?"
"Your mother stopped speaking to Shirley."
"For two years?"
"Almost."
"Then why did they become friends again?"
Dad looked down.
"Shirley apologized. She said she'd confused friendship with attraction. Your mom believed her."
"And you?"
"I wanted to."
My jaw tightened.
"Then why was Shirley still around us?"
"Because your mother forgave people."
I looked at him.
"That doesn't sound like forgiveness. It sounds like Shirley waited."
Dad didn't argue.
"When Mom got sick, did Shirley ever say anything to you?"
"No."
"Nothing?"
"Not until after the funeral."
"How long after?"
He went quiet.
My heart began pounding.
"Dad."
"Three weeks."
I stepped back.
"Three weeks?"
"She told me she was worried about me."
"That isn't what I asked."
He closed his eyes.
"She kissed me."
I felt physically ill.
"Three weeks after Mom died?"
"I stopped her."
"Did you?"
"Yes."
"But you married her three months later."
"Six months after your mother died."
"As if that's better?"
"No."
His voice cracked.
"No, it isn't."
I walked out of the garage.
Dad followed.
"Emma."
"Don't."
"I should've told you."
"Why didn't you?"
"Because I was ashamed."
I turned around.
"Good."
He stopped.
The word was cruel.
I knew it was cruel.
But sometimes hurt doesn't come out gracefully.
"I spent months wondering if I was crazy," I continued. "Every time Shirley did something strange, you told me I was grieving. Every time I said she wanted to replace Mom, you defended her."
"I know."
"And meanwhile you already knew she'd wanted you before Mom ever got sick."
"I convinced myself that wasn't relevant anymore."
"Because it made your life easier."
He nodded.
"Yes."
The fact that he stopped defending himself made it harder to stay furious.
But I managed.
I went upstairs.
That evening, Gary came over.
We sat on the back steps.
I told him almost everything.
He listened.
When I finished, he said, "Your dad sounds like he made a lot of bad choices."
I frowned.
"That's your advice?"
"You didn't ask for advice."
I looked at him.
He shrugged.
"You told me something. I'm listening."
That was Gary.
No dramatic declarations.
No pretending he knew what I should do with my father.
After a while, he added, "Do you want to forgive him?"
"I don't know."
"Then don't decide today."
I looked toward the yard.
Mom had planted hydrangeas along the fence.
They were blooming.
"I keep thinking if I forgive him, it means what he did wasn't that bad."
Gary shook his head.
"My grandma forgave my uncle for stealing money from her."
I looked at him.
"That's oddly specific."
"My family isn't as boring as you think."
I smiled despite myself.
He continued.
"She told him forgiveness didn't mean she was giving him the house keys again."
That stayed with me.
Forgiveness wasn't the same as trust.
Maybe love wasn't either.
Dad began counseling.
Alone.
Then he asked whether I wanted to join him eventually.
I refused.
He didn't pressure me.
That helped more than pressure would have.
His separation from Shirley became official.
The financial issue turned out to be less dramatic than we'd feared. The attempted transfer hadn't completed because the bank flagged it. Shirley received her share of their joint funds, collected her personal belongings, and rented an apartment across town.
She never apologized to me.
Not then.
Maybe I expected some grand confession.
Instead, I received silence.
As graduation approached, Dad and I slowly rebuilt routines.
Saturday breakfast.
Grocery shopping.
Bad movies on Sunday nights.
He stopped making decisions about Mom's belongings without asking me.
One afternoon, he carried three boxes into the living room.
"These are all the things from the storage unit."
I looked at them.
"What do you want me to do?"
"I thought we could decide together."
That sentence mattered.
We kept some things.
Donated others.
Not because Shirley wanted to erase Mom.
Because keeping every possession wasn't the same as keeping her.
Mom's cardigan went to me.
Her sewing machine stayed.
The perfume made both of us cry, so we kept one tiny bottle and donated the unopened ones.
Her photographs returned to albums.
And the prom dress went into an archival garment box Dad ordered online.
"You don't have to seal it away," he said.
"I know."
"Then why are you?"
I smoothed the tissue paper.
"Because prom is over."
That didn't mean the dress was less important.
It meant I no longer needed it hanging like armor in my closet.
Two days before graduation, something unexpected happened.
Shirley came to the house.
Dad was at work.
I saw her through the front window.
For several seconds, I considered pretending I wasn't home.
Then she rang again.
I opened the door but left the chain attached.
"What?"
She looked different.
No heavy makeup.
No dramatic clothes.
She held a box.
"I need to give you something."
"What?"
"Your mother's."
I almost closed the door.
"Everything was returned."
"Not everything."
She lifted the box.
I hesitated.
Then stepped outside instead of letting her enter.
She placed it on the porch between us.
Inside was a folded piece of dusty pink fabric.
My heart stopped.
It was leftover material from my prom dress.
Mom had kept the scraps.
I remembered them.
"What were you doing with this?"
Shirley stared at the porch.
"I took it when Caroline was sick."
Anger surged.
"Why?"
"I wanted the seamstress to match the fabric."
"For your copy?"
She nodded.
I nearly threw the box at her.
Then she said, "I ordered the copy before she died."
I froze.
"What?"
"Not the prom dress."
She swallowed.
"The first dress."
The green one.
"I thought if I dressed more like her, your father might notice me."
There was no excuse in her tone.
Only ugliness exposed to daylight.
"And the prom dress?"
"That was worse."
"No kidding."
She looked at me.
"I knew exactly what it meant to you."
I said nothing.
"And I copied it anyway."
"Why?"
Her eyes filled.
"Because every time Michael looked at you, I could see Caroline."
I clenched my jaw.
"That was my problem, not yours."
"Then why did you make it mine?"
She had no answer.
Finally she whispered, "Because I was jealous of a child."
The admission was so pathetic that my anger shifted into something else.
Not sympathy.
Pity, maybe.
She continued.
"I spent years wanting your mother's life. When she died, I told myself I was helping. Then I told myself Michael and I were meant to happen. Then every reminder of Caroline made me feel like I was living in someone else's house."
"You were."
She flinched.
I didn't apologize.
"You don't get to build your happiness by making everyone else forget her."
"I know."
"Do you?"
She nodded.
"I do now."
I picked up the box.
"Is that all?"
"No."
She reached into her purse.
For one second, I tensed.
Then she pulled out a small velvet pouch.
Inside was Mom's silver thimble.
The one she'd used since before I was born.
My throat closed.
"I kept it," Shirley said.
"Why?"
"Because Caroline gave it to me once when we were twenty-two, then stole it back the next week because she said I was terrible at sewing."
A laugh escaped me before I could stop it.
Shirley smiled faintly.
Then it disappeared.
"It belongs with you."
I held the thimble.
"Thank you."
She nodded.
She turned to leave.
"Shirley."
She stopped.
"I don't forgive you."
Her shoulders stiffened.
"I know."
"Maybe someday I will."
She looked back.
"That would be more than I deserve."
Then she walked away.
I watched until her car disappeared.
Graduation came two days later.
Dad cried exactly as Mom would have predicted.
Gary sat with his parents.
Natalie screamed my name when I crossed the stage.
For the first time in a year, an important day happened without Shirley occupying the center of it.
I thought that meant the story was finally ending.
I was wrong.
Because after graduation, Gary asked me to walk with him behind the auditorium.
He looked unusually nervous.
"What?"
He handed me an envelope.
Inside was a photograph from prom.
Me on the dance floor.
Laughing.
Not crying.
Not confronting Shirley.
Not looking at Mom's dress.
Just dancing.
On the back, Gary had written one sentence.
You kept your promise to her.
I stared at him.
"What promise?"
He smiled.
"To live."
And for the first time since my mother died, I realized something.
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Maybe moving forward didn't mean leaving her behind.
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